Trigger Warning: Relationship Rape
So I’m just gonna say this and I doubt any of you will read this… But you know what is becoming a big problem?
Few people seem to understand that just because you’re dating or otherwise, does not mean you can have sex whenever you want.
No means no.
That’s it, there’s nothing else to it. I don’t care if we’ve been dating for years or days, if I tell you no and do not consent, it is rape.
I’m so sick of getting relationship-raped by boyfriends or exes. Just because we are hanging out does not mean you can pull my pants down or flip my skirt up and have your way with me whenever you feel like it!
"I can’t help it, you made me too horny!" Is not an excuse.
“But I’m soooo turned on, please???” If you have to beg and persuade and pressure, that’s NOT consent!
Just because we may have done it before and just because we are in a relationship does not mean you can take sex whenever you want.
This is something we really need to educate people on, because many don’t realize that this is rape, too!